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Applaud the good for their goodness appreciate those who have believing hearts and be kind to believers. Approach unbelievers so gently that their envy and hatred melt away. Like a Messiah revive people with your breath.
Remember that you travel the best road and follow an Exalted Guide upon him be peace. Be mindful that you have his guidance through the most perfect and expressive revelation. Be fair-minded and balanced in your judgment for many people do not enjoy these blessings.
Return good for evil and disregard discourteous treatment. An individual's character is reflected in his or her behavior. Choose tolerance and be magnanimous toward the ill-mannered.
The most distinctive feature of a soul overflowing with faith is to love all types of love that are expressed in deeds and to feel enmity for all deeds in which enmity is expressed. To hate everything is a sign of insanity or of infatuation with Satan.
Accept how God treats you. Make it the measure by which you treat others so that you may represent the truth among them and be free from the fear of loneliness in either world.
Only those who do not use their reason or who have succumbed to plain stupidity and desires of the flesh are convinced that believing men and women might harm them. Apply to a spiritual master to stir up your heart and fill your eyes with tears.
Judge your worth in the Creator's sight by how much space He occupies in your heart and your worth in people's eyes by how you treat them. Do not neglect the Truth even for a moment. And yet. "be a man or woman among other men or women."
Take note of and be attentive to any behavior that causes you to love others. Then remind yourself that behaving in the same way will cause them to love you. Always behave decently and be alert.
Do not allow your carnal self to be a referee in any contention for it will always rule that everyone but you is sinful and unfortunate. Such a judgment according to the word of the Most Truthful upon him be peace signifies your destruction. Be strict and implacable with your carnal self and be relenting and lenient toward others.
In sum: In order to preserve your credit honor and love love for the sake of the Truth hate for the sake of the Truth and be open-hearted toward the Truth.
Source: Pearls of Wisdom by Fethullah Gulen